In this thought-provoking guest post, Romanian author Adrian Dumitru delves into the complexities of the unconscious mind and its powerful influence on our actions, particularly in relationships. Dumitru explores how suppressed emotions and unexpressed thoughts can unexpectedly surface, creating confusion and duality in even the most stable of love stories. With a candid and introspective approach, he suggests a therapeutic way of navigating these unpredictable emotions, offering readers a unique perspective on how self-awareness and communication can transform our unconscious impulses into opportunities for growth.
Unconscious mind …. has a tremendous power …. and many are not even aware of that.
So … we ignore … all.
… most of the times.
But … you see … the unconscious usually waits and waits and waits … and one day … simple explodes.
I’ve noticed that at me too.
In fact … I’ve analysed my behaviour … and realised that the moment when that happens … it all becomes a weird reality … and i don’t know anymore what to believe about the energies from the present moment.
It all becomes the clear expression of .. duality … and actually it’s clear … that all it’s unclear.
But one of the worst moments when we see the expression of the our unconscious minds … is in love stories.
We feel amazing … illusory believing that we have the most beautiful experience we ever lived … but … one day something happens … and we are shocked.
The same partner which use to repeat on and on and on … that wants to spend the whole life together … suddenly takes the suitcases and disappear … without saying a word.
Or … even if says “I love you!” … one million times a day …
starts to speak online with other persons … and into one point simple takes the decision to cheat … again.
… as did other times also.
But the question is … why?!
Why if things run ok … why such things happen?!
It’s illogical.
In fact … a total nonsense …
Unfortunately … what many of us don’t understand is that beyond the nonsense …. there is always a powerful message.
And … not even after weird things happen and reality changes dramatically … we can’t understand anything at all.
How the hell … if all the energies looked so good … why we should see something so, so contradictory?!
I … personally … came to a point when i start to understand and accept my unconscious side.
I had become aware of my contradictory actions … knowing that in any point of my existence … something weird might happen.
And … in fact … all explodes … in the style of a time bomb.
But … i had discovered … a trick.
I try to imagine … while being in the company of my life partner … that i am on the sofa from the office of a great psychiatrist … and i simple express in front of that person … all i think … believe … feel … no matter how ridiculous that might sound.
I express … all … and then … we analyse together … realising that many of beliefs, feelings or emotions are just … that silly expression of my existence.
It’s part of myself … but … must maybe not dominate my reality.
I simple need to become conscious of all that defines me … or my partner.
Analyse … define … then accept all … so that into the end to conclude that we need to redefine ourselves … and simple be … the best versions we can be on the stage of life.
You see … not really pretending that we know what the unconscious mind is, but being aware of its tremendous impact … we must allow all to be expressed into a declarative way.
Like we do … while being at a … therapist.
But … of course … we must learn how to play this game of patient-therapist with our partners … and clearly feel the days when we have the role of the patient and the ones when we are the therapist.
Then … all … will be much … much easier … to digest … no matter of the nature of our problems.
And maybe … unpleasant surprises … might totally disappear ….
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